how close is your relation to them? do u belive that relatives are the best friends? do u only know them as relatives or you are sooo close to them? do u prefere to spend ur holiday with ur freidns or ur realtives? and dont tell me both I used to be much closer to my cousins when we were younger, as we spent more time together back then. Now that each is married and busy with their own lives we have drifted apart a bit. I have to admit that I am now closer to my friends, though I would love to be able to go back in time and have one of those sleepovers with my cousins where we stayed up all night giggling and sharing secrets!